The Prez Says… Do you sometimes struggle when others get special recognition? I spoke with a client this week whose best friend was hired for a well-paid professional job despite not having a college degree. Her past volunteer work convinced the employer that she was talented, capable and would be an asset to his staff. She didn’t even need to formally apply for the position. This was especially difficult for my client because she is struggling to pay for and complete college courses for the degree that is normally a prerequisite for the job her friend was given.
Jealousy and envy can be silent killers, extinguishing the companionship of the Spirit. The first step of jealousy is comparing ourselves to others. Comparisons result in either feeling better about ourselves (which leads to pride), or worse (which leads to jealousy that someone else has it better than we do.) Both conclusions can be deadly.
David’s slaying of Goliath brought the praise of many, and won him a spot of favor in Saul’s eyes—temporarily. The people sang and danced for joy, repeatedly chanting, “Saul has slain his thousands and David his ten thousands!” (1 Sam. 18:7) Saul became increasingly angry and jealous of David, and worried that the people would want David to be their king. Saul gradually became consumed with fear and jealousy, and this became his downfall. Saul is a tragic example of how jealousy can lead to self-destruction. (Read 1 Sam. 18-19)
When someone else is praised or blessed, let’s rejoice with them and dismiss thoughts of jealousy and envy. Being mindful of our own blessings and of the generosity of the Lord in our lives can eliminate the poison of jealousy.
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